Seconds, hours, so many days. One heartbeat lost in the crowd.
Sometimes we just have to accept the fact that some people stay in our hearts forever, even if we aren't in theirs.
Shafiqah Othman H.
I'm a backseat driver, a drama provider. I'm a first-class liar, a constant forgetter. Don't judge me tomorrow by the way I'm acting today.
Yesterday I went to Nini's place together with Bella and Fiza for another practice session for this Dec 18's acoustic night at Munkee Studio. I feel like it had been a really productive day for we managed to finalize our song choices and the order to sing them in. It was so fun singing at the porch, we all couldn't stop smiling at each other. All that's left is to just make it perfect ♥ I seriously cannot wait for acoustic night now!
After Bella and Fiza left, I stayed with Nini for a while longer. We were picking out outfits to wear and had heart-to-heart conversations with each other. It was so fun spending time with her, even though we didn't do much except for staying in her room.
Just look at us! Who else will be willing to take such ugly photos like that with me? ♥ *except for my boyfriend of course, hahaha
By the way, Less Than Three is now on YouTube! It's a new channel, and nothing has been edited in yet, but we have uploaded our cover of "What Makes You Beautiful" in it.
Help us spread the love! ♥ Bella, Fiza and Nini are coming over to my place later on to practice again, I can't wait to meet my girls :)
That's the gist of what had happened yesterday, and so now let me get to the point of what I want to talk about.
Long-distance relationships.
I have been in one before, and frankly that didn't work out too well even though the first few months were good. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I don't think it can't work out. I highly believe that if two people are deeply in love with each other, things will fall into place somehow. Right now I just want to talk about how you should actually behave in these relationships.
Well, I am no love guru, and of course these aren't rules you should abide by. But being a girl that has been through this kind of relationship before, I think it's only natural for me to want to share what we females want in an LDR. Not all girls though, maybe this just goes for me and some others, but hey, you can always take it as tips.
We don't ask for much, really. It's an LDR, what can you ask for? We don't expect you to book a ticket for the next flight, fly to our country and show up at our door with a bouquet of flowers. We don't expect your attention 24/7 because we are aware that you have other things to do, because so do we. We don't expect you to call our cellphones and talk to us for hours, because we know how expensive it can be. We don't expect you to stay online for hours just to talk to us, because we know you get tired.
All we ask for is reassurance. No matter how "busy" you get, it really helps if you could contact us at least once a day. It would make us feel so much better knowing that we actually cross your mind. Besides, these days you have Twitter, Facebook, WhatsApp, BBM, Viber, Line and so many other free applications. Just send a simple and sweet message, and that's all. We just want to hear from you. We want to know you're fine, and that you care about the relationship as much as we do. We're far away from each other, is it that hard to let us know how you are? Trust is really important in these relationships. And of course you'd want us to trust you. But how can we trust you when you don't even want to talk to us?
I'm not saying that guys are always the ones that do wrong in an LDR, sometimes the girls mess up too. But I'm just speaking from a female's point of view.
To whoever is experiencing an LDR right now, I really wish you guys the best of luck, and stay strong! May the flames of your love keep burning forever ♥
P.S. This has absolutely nothing to do with my boyfriend. Yes, he is in Australia right now, but he texts and calls me every day, and he reminds me every morning when he wakes up and every night before he goes to bed that he loves me. I seriously cannot ask for anything better. I love you Ameer Nazrin Moore :*
And to my best friend, please stay strong! I know you are hurting right now, but always know that there are people here that care for you, and do appreciate having you around. I guarantee that if this doesn't work out, you will find someone that's a thousand times better in the future. I know that is easy to say, but I'm sure Allah isn't mean to let you suffer. Do not waste your tears and effort on someone who doesn't know what he wants. I love you bestie :)
"Anything that's worth having is sure enough worth fighting for."
